If you have someone around you who loves to grow flowers, you must cherish him or her!

A few days ago, one of Huahua’s male besties asked Huahua:

"Huahua, I've recently fallen in love with one of my colleagues. She's not very noticeable in our company, and I never see her at every party. But she seems to like growing flowers very much. She takes care of all the plants in the company. I heard that she has a lot of potted plants at home. Do you think a girl like this would be more lonely?"

I think my male best friend’s thoughts are the same as most people’s. Nowadays, the times are developing so fast that everyone is keen on online social networking, especially young people who are busy with their livelihoods and running around every day. They are under tremendous pressure and are lucky to finish their work. How can they have extra energy to devote themselves to plants?

But those who love to grow flowers are not really weird. On the contrary, they are kinder, more careful and hardworking than most people. If there is someone who loves to grow flowers around you, please cherish her.

The more serious people are about the life of flowers and plants, the more persistent they are in their feelings.

When Huahua was a child, she lived in an old-style house with a courtyard. There was a garden in front of the door for the residents to use. Some people let their land go to waste and be overgrown with weeds; others fill in their yards and widen their paths. Huahua's neighbor, Sister Xiaoling, takes good care of the yard every day and has turned it into a well-proportioned small garden.

At that time, Huahua was very envious of the flowers growing in Sister Xiaoling's garden, thinking that they must be the happiest flowers in the world to receive such careful care from Sister Xiaoling. So Huahua often went to Sister Xiaoling's yard to play, and learned a lot of knowledge about growing flowers from Sister Xiaoling.

As spring goes and autumn comes, Sister Xiaoling takes care of the garden day after day. Today she worries that the plum rain will kill the flowers, and tomorrow she is afraid that the scorching sun will burn the green plants. Everyone thinks that Xiaoling is too worried about the lives of these flowers and plants. Even Huahua begins to think that Sister Xiaoling is too worried.

Only then did Sister Xiaoling tell Huahua her story. It turned out that at first, Sister Xiaoling also disliked that gardening was too troublesome. It was her boyfriend who was a soldier who tidied up the garden with Sister Xiaoling when he came back from vacation. They weeded, planted flowers, and took cuttings. They also planted a small sapling.

Before leaving, Xiaoling's boyfriend said to her, "I'm going to the border this time, and it will be three years before I come back. If you have me in your heart, take good care of this garden. If you fall in love with someone else, you don't have to take care of it anymore, so that I can understand your feelings when I come back."

After listening to Sister Xiaoling's story, Huahua had already burst into tears, and finally understood why Sister Xiaoling cared so much about the lives of these flowers and plants. The border is bitterly cold, and Sister Xiaoling has lost contact with her boyfriend. She can only express her longing for him by caring for this courtyard...

Now, my brother-in-law, who has retired, and Sister Xiaoling are planting flowers and plants together. The small trees they planted together back then have long grown tall.

You see, a person who loves to grow flowers, her attitude towards the life of flowers and plants is the same as her attitude towards love.

People who like to grow flowers are more careful than others.

Huahua has always felt that people who like to grow flowers must be very careful about life, themselves, and others.

Huahua's grandmother has been growing flowers for nearly 30 years. She was a surgeon before she retired. She has never made any mistakes in her work during her decades of practice and is a famous doctor in the hospital.

Her meticulousness comes from growing flowers.

The petals are a little yellow, no. It’s not good if the leaves are a bit dry and flat. In my grandmother’s mind, growing flowers is like examining a patient, and you can’t be careless at all. Grandma often said to Huahua:

"It's easy for a doctor to become numb when facing life and death every day, and often wonder if he has saved people wholeheartedly. But when I think about it, I am obsessed with flowers and plants, and I am willing to spend energy and time to take good care of them, so I will not doubt my sincerity and attitude towards patients."

Grandma's words have always influenced Huahua. Those who love flowers and plants must live more carefully and seriously than ordinary people. Because in their eyes, being careful is not just a character trait, but also a sense of responsibility.

People who like to grow flowers are more calm and intellectual

A reader once left a message to Huahua in the background:

"Huahua, a good friend of mine always asks me why others say I am more elegant than her, and whether I have signed up for some etiquette classes behind her back. I don't know whether to laugh or cry. I told her that I didn't, but she still didn't believe me. I didn't mean to show off, but I felt very distressed..."

In order to help this reader solve the problem, Huahua found her updates on the Flower Growing Encyclopedia APP and finally understood after reading it for a long time.

This flower lover not only loves to grow flowers and plants, but also takes flower arrangement classes every week and arranges the flowers delicately and beautifully. Huahua thinks that this is probably the reason why she is more intellectual and elegant than her friends.

A person who loves to grow flowers has a heart that is green indifferent, pink elegant, yellow gentle, and white pure. How can such a person not be loved?